Intermission
Just a short walk up to the stacks. My memory is still solid as I can easily find the shelves where the BASS live. They are aligned perfectly.
Waiting - and waiting - and waiting.
With the new circulation system there is no longer a need for a due date slip to be place and stamped in the back of the book.
The 2013 edition of BASS is crisp and clean - the pages snap and crackle as I quickly flip them between my thumb. And I have this quickening and shortness of breath as I think that perhaps I am the only one that will ever do this. I pull some of the other volumes down to find one with a due date slip in the back - I need to see when it was last checked out.
It’s funny that I actually feel a physical hurt thinking that these books will sit here for years and years until someday they are discarded - never to have been read - their authors never heard of again.
Finding Natasha – Madison Smartt Bell
Back in October we made our first trip back
to Romania with W. It was a wonderful trip. Plenty of time with the
family and W traveled extremely well.
Going back to Negresti is not just
a trip back to a former home, it’s a chance to time travel.
I knew before the
trip that I would have for time traveling with my son, feeling emotions from
those old days but with a companion from the future so W and I took every
opportunity to get out of the apartment and onto the little streets of
Negresti.
At least twice a day W and I would venture out onto the
cold(somewhat cold), still dusty(not as dusty), still dirty(not as dirty)
streets of Negresti. We’d make our way out of the apartment, taking dark
the uneven stairs with care and onto the sidewalk outside of the apartment
bloc.
Each time, be it the bright light of the morning, a midday glare -
or the dusky evening purple light, I’d take a quick couple of seconds to
assess the surroundings, see who was walking down the sidewalk as a possible
portal to the past. We’d start our walk down the sidewalk and usually
turning right towards the “commercial” street. Heading out onto the
street for W was all about reaching the playground.
He had his
priorities, I had mine.
Heading out onto the street for me was all about
returning to 1998 - reaching back. Things changed in Negresti - but not
much. Infants that were born when I first arrived there were now old
enough to be my students if I were to teach there again. Time failed to
stop for me as I wish it had. I walked with W down the streets doing my best to
casually stroll and to make myself as visible as possible.
Sounds, smells the
light - all were the same. 1998 returned to me often on those walks.
I ran into former students who apologized for their English as I apologized
for my Romanian.
Time travel.
Nervous laughter and smiles - and then it was
over.
We continued down the street. There was a brief tug from the past, a
tug towards the bars with their smoke and cheap vodka. Thinking back to
those days, I determined that a good deal of self-examination and discovery
took place in those “establishments” brought on by the clarifying effects of
the booze.
Walking the streets in 2013 I realized that there would be no
going back. Those smoky rooms were gone for me now.
I would need to
discover myself elsewhere - but honestly, is my discovery all that important in
the role that I now serve as a father? Yes, to some degree I suppose -
but perhaps existing in the present with my son is far more important that
strolling down the dirty sidewalks and dark smoky rooms of my past. It’s
time to remember the past, not live in it - I must live in the present and the
future with my son.
A Kind of Simple, Happy Grace - Richard Bausch
A very strange day today - a day when many
old memories surfaced and pushed my mood towards the slightly melancholic.
It started as I was looking at some old vacation locations on Google
Earth. I then ventured into some of my online photo albums and pulled up
old shots of my father. Not really old - maybe 5-7 years ago. A
lifetime ago really. A time where he knew my name.
Where we could sit at
a table and drink scotch and carry on conversations. In those conversations,
some were pretty banal - others deep and meaningful - either way, I seem to
remember making connections with him that had never before developed.
So,
now, I am stuck with the connections we made then.
We can go no further.
And, I think this is OK.
It’s my opinion that as humans we seek to
make connections.
Richard Bausch in his contributor’s notes concerning
this story writes that - “...I knew I wanted to bring them to some pass that
would mean a sort of helpless embrace.”
I think it’s natural that because of
the divorce I sought out deep and meaningful connections with my father - and
as I matured and wondered where his mind was during the divorce, I sought to
understand him more through our discussions.
When dad and I sat together
and drank, it was our embrace.
I remembered those embraces today and I’ll
remember them tonight as I practice my Thursday night scotch drinking ritual.
The Fireman's Wife - Richard Bausch
My struggles with staying on top of posting here are
primarily due to a block. I haven’t isolated it completely – just that it
originates with my change in life. We
all work through our blocks. We fall off
our horses and climb back on. In this
case, I do not resent the origins of the change in my life one bit. It’s just a stage, and as I progress forward,
I will be able to pull good parts of my old life into the life I now live.
The Fireman’s Wife is the second story in BASS 1990. The author is Richard Bausch who I’ve read
before in BASS 1988 (Police
Dreams) back in the summer of 2012.
We’ll have the treat of reading more Bausch in my next entry as he is featured
twice in this anthology.
Of his decision to include Bausch twice in this volume
editor Richard Ford states: “I’d have felt more balanced by seeming more
balanced, but I simply couldn’t believe I was publishing the best stories I
found if I ignored these”.
Bausch is also in BASS 1997 – I look forward to reading him
several months from now (er…could be years at my rate of reading and writing).
Bausch was born in 1945 and presently he is a professor at Wilkinson
College of the Arts & Humanities at Chapman University in Orange,
California. He spent some time in
Virginia attending college and later teaching just up north at George Mason.
Bausch has a great section on his website – where he lays out his Ten
Commandments for writers.
They are great and worth re-posting here:
Ten Commandments of
Richard Bausch
1. Read: “You must try to know everything that has ever been
written that is worth remembering, and you must keep up with what your
contemporaries are doing.”
2. Imitate: “While you are doing this reading, you spend
time trying to sound like the various authors — just as a painter, learning to
paint, sets up his easel in the museum and copies the work of the masters.”
3. “Be regular and ordinary in your habits, like a Petit
Bourgeois, so you may be violent and original in your work.” — borrowed from
Flaubert
4. Train yourself to be able to work anywhere.
5. Be Patient. “You will write many more failures than
successes. Say to yourself, I accept failure as the condition of this life,
this work. I freely accept it as my destiny. Then go on and do the work. You
never ask yourself anything beyond Did I work today?”
6. Be Willing. “Accepting failure as a part of your destiny,
learn to be willing to fail, to take the chances that often lead to
failure in the hope that one of them might lead to something good.”
7. Eschew politics. “You are in the business of portraying
the personal life, the personal cost of events, so even if history is part of
your story, it should only serve as a backdrop.”
8. Do not think, dream.
9. Don’t compare yourself to anyone, and learn to keep from
building expectations.
10. Be wary of all general advice.
In an interview with Jack Smith published in “Writer” - Apr2007
Smith in his introduction writes:
The Virginia Quarterly Review said – “With
any luck, Richard Bausch's genius will be recognized now as heir and equal to
Carver's."
I feel bad that I didn’t look further into Bausch back in
July of 2012. I’m a huge fan of Carver
and have been reading What We Talk
About When We Talk About Love which is such a bad-ass
collection of tightly written stories.
So if Bausch lines up with Carver – I’m stoked.
Later in the interview Smith goes on to write “Familiar
Bausch themes include marital stresses and breakups, the problems of aging, and
the complex relations between parents and children. Like his literary kinsmen
Carver and Richard Ford, he tends to produce work that is often very dark,
ironic and bizarre.” And then “Bausch masterfully zeroes in on the oddities and
quirks in people, and the bizarre ways in which human beings clash as they try
to conduct their lives the only way they know how.”
And the above pretty much sells it for me on Bausch.
I enjoyed this story.
I enjoyed the depth of characters and as a fan of Carver; I enjoyed the
misery in which the characters lived.
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